…I didn’t know this man even existed. And now according to my wordpress countdown there are 17 days until our wedding.
According to archived OkCupid emails, Ryan first wrote to me on February 13th last year. He was responding to my message after I had seen that he had looked at my profile. We don’t know when I first wrote to him but it’s pretty safe to say that I had no idea on February 5th, 2013, while I was preparing to speak at the FOPC mission potluck in Sacramento, that this time next year I would be preparing for my wedding in Santa Barbara.